Don't Meddle.

I've made this mistake more than once, and so you'd think lesson learned, don't do it again.   While the intent is good, it is no good to be the go-between for guy-girl relationships.  Thus I hereby submit my resignation.  I leave all romances to figure themselves out. 

I will still gladly dish advice to my gal pals, and even my two cents to the inquisitive guy, but for the most part I will try not to meddle (which I can't figure if this stuff just happens or if I go looking for it).  Meddling for me is defined by knowing and talking with both sides, which I suppose is more like mediating.  I don't want to mediate either.  It's stickiness I'd rather avoid.

This is not to say that seeking wisdom in relationships is bad-this is to be encouraged.  It greatly annoys me when boy and girl are off in their own world.  This just shouldn't be.  I'm very much the communitarian when it comes to relationships.

You guys are all grown-ups...you don't need my help for the go-between .